Faith, love and perfection
Wed, 17 Dec 2003 Filed in:
Journal
These three ideas have been on my mind
a great deal lately. Let me see if I can summarize: Faith means to
me that life is not dispassionate or inert. Rather, the events of
one’s life are animated by a purpose, which is always leading one
toward betterment. Thus, there is a “faith” that *all* events help
us on our way, and this builds a confidence that whatever we strike
out to do, life will help us to accomplish. Such faith undoes fear,
and informs us that no matter what happens, we cannot lose: “The
friends of God shall win and profit under all conditions, and shall
attain true wealth.” Perfection is the idea that however life may
appear, it is perfect in its being. Although we see only slivers of
the present, if we saw the whole picture at once, we would discover
that nothing need improve for us to reach our goal. In a way, life
is designed for each individual to fit their specific needs. If
things appear oddly done, or flawed, it is only because this is
what will tweak us in the ways we need. We are immersed in the
world, and so we see it as though reading a book one letter at a
time. We cannot visualize the whole story, and so things appear
flawed in the moment. But perfection is what the eye of faith will
see; whenever we see imperfection, we lack faith in what life has
presented us with. Combining these two ideas is the way of Love.
Religion teaches that the purpose of life is to educate the soul
and develop its spirituality. This primarily refers to developing
the capacity to love, since all other virtues stem from this (or so
I understand). From the love of God comes the love of His will, and
from that comes obedience to His commandments, and fulfillment of
the duties that form the basis of society. Even “irreligious”
people participate in this, in which case I believe their
irreligion has to do more with institutions and beliefs, and not
the basic principles that cause the soul to love what is good about
goodness. If the purpose of life is to master love, then faith
would say that everything that happens is meant to improve us in
this direction: that the world we see is perfectly ordered to allow
this improvement. Such a perfection is a perfection of purpose, not
of immediate form. If we look at the world in any given moment, it
is easy to point out variations from our imagined perfection, such
as the degree of poverty and crime around us. But if the purpose is
to develop love, perhaps there is another kind of perfection — one
that has nothing to do with what we think is best, but with what
really *is* best for the education of man. For example, if my
friends had no “flaws”, there would be no difficulty in loving them
all the time. It would not even really be love, but a kind of
automatic response to the perfections of their qualities. But the
lover, looking at the world, does not find any need to change it.
It is perfect in its being, and does not need improvement. What the
lover responds to is what *is* rather than what *could be*. And
when he loves things as they are, he will ask, “What can I offer,
what can I do?” This is how love motivates him to act. Without such
faith, and seeing what appears to be an imperfect world, we feel
driven to correct it, to fix it. Since this does not proceed from a
motive of love, life (so I believe) will respond *in whatever way
can teach us about love*. This might mean, in some cases, that
things would get worse by trying to fix them, until we give up any
hope of controlling the world, and learn how to accept it. For
whenever we try to “fix” a perfect world, we only cause it to
respond in such a way as to maintain its perfection. And if what is
perfect is what trains us and educates our souls, then whatever
life was doing before, it will continue to do after our attempted
fix. The upshot of this is that appreciating the lessons of life
reveals an entirely different basis for action. Rather than viewing
all that is imperfect, in ourselves and around us, and setting up a
huge task list to fix them all, the object is to accept and love
what we see to such an extent that we feel moved to offer something
of ourselves. `Abdu’l-Bahá said, “Let your heart burn with loving
kindness for all who may cross your path.” Is this possible when we
are looking at the flaws of the world so we may fix them? If we no
longer have any interest in flaws, but in learning to love what
*is*, our entire relationship to life changes. It becomes a matter
of faith, not measurement. Whoever the people we meet may be, the
goal is to “burn with loving kindness”; and thus their very being,
for us, is a lesson to that end. And if we did “perfect” the world,
where would the lessons go? If we imagine and dream of a future
with no war, no hatred, no flaws — what would exercise the
capacities of man to overcome hatred? If we work toward a world
that no longer challenges us, what are we wanting from life? That
it leave us alone? If life is exactly the set of lessons required
to prepare us for what comes next — so asks faith — then the life
we see today is the life we are called upon to love. In our world
of misery, much of that love will take the form of comfort, solace,
aid. However, desiring to aid someone from love is a very different
motive from wanting only that their pain cease troubling our
conscience. So faith sees a perfect world, whose purpose is to
train us how to love. And it will always do so, and always be the
same “world” relative to our state. In this sense, the world we see
is really a mirror of our state of growth. As we change, it
changes; this is the nature of its perfection. In such an adaptable
climate, the real question is not how to achieve the perfections we
imagine, but how to respond to what we need. And if life really is
perfect, then there is nothing I ever need ask of it myself; for it
already provides (and always will) exactly what I’ve been needing
all along. “Gain is their lot, whatever the deal.”